How to get the most out of role-playing in the BDSM world

Role-playing can be an amazing way to increase the intensity of any

sexual relationship, but even more so in a BDSM partnership. When

you add the element of role-playing, you can create a sense

of authority and control in a scene. 

First, find out what your partner might be dreaming about in

terms of role-playing. Does he or she think of being a villain

and you as a controlling teacher? Maybe they are in the

police and criminal scenario? Take the time to discuss with your

partner the potential scenes you can do with these roles.

You can even go shopping together to find the appropriate costumes to wear. Using costumes is actually a great way to put yourself in the shoes of the characters you will be playing.

Once you’ve figured out what you want to explore, try to figure out what makes this fantasy so exciting for your partner. Is it the outfits? The pig speech? Spanking? By talking with your partner you can think about which role play you want to

try and determine what is most important in this scene

for him and for you. This will intensify the experience and make it easier for

you both to step into roles.

Another way to make sure roleplaying works well for you is to make sure you stay in character as much as possible.

Speak coarsely or use medical language in a doctor-patient scene.

Put on some “props” that will help you both get into the character, you want to make the “real” world disappear for now.

When you are in a role-playing game, you have to keep in mind that

not everything will turn out well – it is inevitable. So make sure

you’re not too serious about keeping things in the role!

To play. What matters is that the two of you are having a great time. If your accent for the Russian prostitute isn’t perfect, don’t sweat. And if that rope tie falls apart, just fix it and move on

Other tips for making your role playwork:

Research the role you want to play – Read stories about the character you are going to play. You can also read erotic stories articles that include this character to help you get a better idea of ​​what you can do.

If your partner is interested, you can also switch roles from time to time. Or you can switch roles in the middle of the role play if that’s something you both want to do.

Try new things – There are hundreds of different role-playing games that you can play, why not try them all?

You really don’t need anything more than a vivid imagination – You don’t need to have the right clothes or accessories to have a fun role …

Talk about the role play afterward – Talk about what worked and

what didn’t so you can get better

every time you try.

Role-playing is a fun thing to add to your BDSM scenes as both partners feel like they’re someone else for a while and can lead to intense games of control and power. Isn’t that what you want after all?

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