How to get started with soft bondage?

What was originally a military practice for tying up prisoners has become an art in its own right, highly codified and highly prized by the upper castes. The vice.com website features a story on shibari – guaranteed to be free of shocking images!

Democratized in the 90s, bondage (from English to jump-link) refers nowadays to an erotic practice that sees members of a couple to focus so completely willing. Bondage is an increasingly popular way for couples to spice up their sex life.

The simple fact of being tied up causes some people to feel more intense.

How to get started with soft bondage?

As always when it comes to a couple’s sex life, the rules of the game should be clear from the start. Define basic principles with your partner: who attaches the other, with what, when we no longer “play” …

The easiest way to learn about bondage is to tie – or have yourself tied – the wrists. You will find a chic and comfortable selection of ties specially designed for the SM soft here. But the most fun is to do with what is at hand.

The stockings that have just been hastily taken off, the tie that Mister X still wears around his neck, the belt of your satin bathrobe… the possibilities are numerous.

A thousand and one ways to bond

Once you are comfortable with the idea of ​​having your fists tied, why not tie your legs as well? Bondage is above all a discipline of immobility, of abandonment, and which allows a whole range of scenarios to be played out. To try :

The Prisoner: a great classic of erotic literature and fantasy n ° 1 for those who dare to admit it. Stockholm Syndrome obliges, the Prisoner to end up giving herself body and soul to her kidnapper.

Police custody: Mister X was very naughty, he finds himself handcuffed in the prosecutor’s office, which will make him spend a pleasant quarter of an hour.

The Cowboy and the Indian: The Cowboy has been caught by the beautiful Indian tribe. The lover gives John Smith a last night of madness in the tipi where he is tied up while awaiting his execution.

The phenomenon of the Fifty Shades of Gray saga has made many people want to fulfill the fantasy of BDSM with their partner. Are you also tempted by the idea, but without going to the extreme either? Here are some tips to get you started smoothly.

Did you know? With each release of the three films of the Fifty Shades of Gray saga in theaters, sales of SM accessories, such as handcuffs, riding crops, or whips, have increased considerably in sex shops. The erotic saga of E.L James democratized BDSM, making it a lot sexier than it looked in people’s minds. It must be said that when we imagined this in our heads, we thought of a dungeon, with objects of torture and leather outfits. But the version of Christian Gray and Anastasia Steele is much more accessible and exciting. 

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